How to Flirt With a Girl At the Bar Without Being Creepy

Flirting is fun and if you’re already at the bar, it could be the first step to finding your next date. However, flirting when it’s unwanted or executed in the wrong way may lead to a drink being thrown in your face.

So what is the right way to flirt with girls at the bar? Here are 5 tips to help you approach that will actually work.

Go and Start a Conversation

It may seem right because you see it all the time in the movies, but sending drinks to her and her friends isn’t going to win you any brownie points. In a crowded bar, when a woman finds out that her next drink is courtesy of some random dude hiding in the shadows, it will likely tingle her spider sense in a bad way.

If you don’t want to seem like a “creeper,” you’d be better off going up the girl and starting a conversation. Leave those suave drink sending moves to the fictional characters in your favorite movies.

Stick to Safe Topics

One of the most common flirting mistakes that men make is getting too personal too fast. If you’ve only just said ‘hi,’ now is not the right time to ask her about who she voted for or to tell her how great her boobs look in her dress.

When you make these mistakes, it shows that you don’t know how to respect boundaries (#1 creep sign). So to keep things light-hearted and stick with the easy questions and comments. You can ask her about her favorite movies, musical artists, places she’d like to travel to, or favorite drink and why. Make some jokes and keep the conversation fun and simple.

Maintain Some Space

Yea, she’s hot… But do you really need stand two inches away from her face? Even if the bar is crowded, don’t invade her personal space. Look for positive body language signs. If she crosses her arms or backs away from you, take a step back before continuing the conversation so that she feels more comfortable.

Dress Nice

The first thing that a woman notices about a guy is his appearance. If your hair is messy or you’re wearing clothes that look like your mom bought them for you, you’ve already generated some creepy vibes to the girls around you. Looking and smelling good is as just as important as what you say in the flirting game.

Don’t Be Afraid

Women can smell fear from a million miles away. Your cracking voice and sweaty palms are a dead giveaway. If you doubt yourself, women will too. So don’t be afraid to try out your latest joke or funny story as you flirt. You can even use some of the funny pick up lines when you start using the BOTY App. It just might work!

Original Article: https://botyapp.com/blog-flirt-guy-creepy-bar/ 

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5 Signs That You're At a College Bar

Tonight you’re feeling adventurous so you’re going to check out a bar you’ve never been to. As you approach the door, you start getting some weird vibes. Is this a college bar?

While we all love to reminisce about our college days, all of your drunken escapades have probably made you forget what a college bar is really like. If you’re not sure what you’re in for before it’s too late, here are 5 dead giveaways that you’re at a college bar.

1. Happy Hour Specials for Amateurs

The list of drinks on the happy hour specials (along with the lack of fancy glassware) is almost a dead giveaway that you’re at a college bar. Let’s face it: college kids aren’t the most sophisticated drinkers so to them any drink that gets them wasted is more than good enough. Rum and Coke, Screwdriver, Jungle Juice, Fireball, and Jäger bombs are pretty much par for the course. But if you can stomach well drinks, what’s not to love about getting your drink on for $5?

2. Bros on Bros on Bros

If there are groups of rowdy Bros slamming down shot glasses on the bar and they’re already shit-faced even though it’s only 6 pm, it’s almost guaranteed that you’re at a college bar. And if you’re still not sure, just check to see if they’re drinking Tequila. If the answer is ‘yes’ and you’re not ready to bounce yet, here’s a pro tip. Make sure to leave enough room for them to do their thing because they take any “oohhhh shit…” song, like LMFAO’s ‘Shots‘, literally.

3. It’s Going Down While You’re In Line

Another thing that Bros are well-known for is fighting at the bar. So if you see people getting thrown out for being too drunk as you’re going in, that’s a good sign that you’re in for a night at a college bar. Another telltale sign is that the bouncer is eyeing people’s IDs with the flashlight way too hard as you watch them squirm in line hoping that their fakes are good enough to get them in.

4. Awkward PDA

There’s PDA and then there’s the “OMG, do you guys realize that you’re in public?” If you see couples doing way too much right in the middle of the bar, you’re probably in a bar packed with horny college students. Unfortunately, after some people have had enough $5 drinks, virtually anything goes.

5. You’re the Creepy Older Guy or Gal

If you’re older than almost everyone in the bar, even by just a few years, there’s a good chance that you’re actually the creepy oldie and everyone’s wondering why you’re there. Scope out the crowd. Does everyone seem to be the same age except for you? Don’t feel ashamed now. Just accept the fact that you’re at a college bar! 

Original Article: https://botyapp.com/blog-signs-college-bar/

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